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Is this a great country or what? Even after school, we can keep learning new stuff simply by asking questions.

If you are one of those people too proud to ask questions, or stop to

ask for directions, then you and my husband Patrick are twins.

 I wish for you only cars with navigation systems and grocery stores with only end caps…and for everybody else, here are some simple solutions to get the answers you seek:

  • Decide what you want to know or want to have. It’s difficult to get an answer if you don’t know what the question is. In this story, I wanted a directory of counties.
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  • Narrow the search. Make an educated guess where the answer might be. Who is the most likely person to have the answer for this question? Can a search engine help you find the answer? This time, I found my answer on the third try.


  • Don’t be afraid to ask for help. The world is full of salespeople who are paid to help promote products and answer questions. Some of them have even been trained with accurate information. Still others have learned erroneously what works and what doesn’t and are more than happy to share their opinions. When purchasing a lawn mower earlier this year I purposely asked two male shoppers (non salespeople) “If you could have any lawnmower here on display which one would you choose and why?” They both picked the exact same mower based on their personal experience and gave me reasons why that mower would outlast and outperform another machines by ten years. Guess which mower I bought?


  • Research your options.  Make it a habit to ask where can I find one? How much does it cost? Is there a free version? Can I get one on sale? If the one I want is unavailable, is there something else I can use as a substitute? Which model is the best version for me?

  • Check out www.Epinions.com where you can find numerous third-party reviews for merchandise, pricing, ease of use, reliability, return ability, replacements, substitutes etc.

  • Change your questions if you can’t find the information you need. If you’re getting useless answers, your question(s) may be to blame.

  • Go to www.libdex.com which is an index of 18,000 or more libraries in the US offering useful information, or go to http://www.247ref.org/communities.htm for a list of libraries offering 24/7 live help through a national network of reference librarians who know where to find some of the most hard-to-find information.

It’s been said that what you don’t know can’t hurt you. I say that what you DO know can certainly help…and possibly save time and money. All you have to do is ask.

Angela Oberer © 2008, Oberer is the author of the "Be Well Series".  You can send your questions and comments to her at: Angela@WordsofWellness.com

 

 

 

 

 

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