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That
Good Bye Moment - Continued
by
Angela Brown
I hate that moment when you realize you've taken a friendship for granted.
The relationship is over or about to end, and you didn't realize what it
meant to you until now. You wish you could go back in time and re-live it
all over again, only this time with meaning and awareness.You remember in an instant the good times,
the laughter, the smiles, words of encouragement and the impact a particular
person has had on you...and you know because of them you'll never be the
same again. It's a sensational and terribly empty feeling wrapped in one.
"I am retiring. Been here twenty three years and today's my last day."
Joyce answered.
Silence erased the chitchat of the new crowd coming in the front door. It
was like a death sentence. You could have heard a stamp drop.
She proceeded to tell how she had a fondness for the mountains and now
that she would have days and weeks of free time, she was going to pursue her
love for hiking.
She continued ringing up the regulars while sharing stories of her
adventures on the Appalachian Trails. Even after we'd been helped, we
lingered awhile, listening to her stories, and not wanting to say good-bye.
Wouldn't it be nice if we could treat all of our interactions with our
friends, family and business associates with the same respect that
"good-bye" moment provides - with meaning and awareness?
What a difference that one woman made in the lives of so many...and what
an impact she made in mine.
I'm going to miss you Joyce.
Happy Hiking!
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